"Just another night
A gloomy, gloomy night,
Where your life became that sad song,
And you've given up acting strong,
As you stare at that familiar ceiling,
And the tears roll down your face...
Sticky and silently;
Not bothering to wipe them away
Tears that make no sense to you
And have no reason to come...
And when that night passes
That gloomy, gloomy night,
You're back again...
With a store-bought smile,
Plastered to your icy face,
And a genuine and happy laugh,
That never ever came..."
Friends are plenty when the purse is full. But most of our friends are fair-weather friends. They are time servers. There are very few strand by us through thick and thin. Prosperity gains friends but diversity tries them. Adversity is the touchstone of friendship.
A friend in need is a friend indeed. True and selfless friends are rare in this selfish world. Friendship knows no rank, it makes no distinction between a king and a beggar. A friend is a friend, whether the world goes right or wrong.
A real friend is the balm of our life. He is selfless. He is prepared to sacrifice his all for us. He gives sane advice, criticizes our views and opinions in a constructive manner and directs our will and energy into proper channels.
A true friend is one who appreciates us, who knows our faults as well as virtues, who understands and sympathizes with our aims and objects and shares our ambitions and joys, hopes and disappointments.
On the other hand, a selfish friend is a self-seeker. He is not good and honest. He is not prepared to sacrifice his personal interest for us. With him his own self is first and other things are afterwards. The friendship of a selfish man is of a hollow type.
A selfish friend is an opportunist. He does not love us but our money and the comforts that money can buy for him. His friendship is a business proposition. His friendship is based on the hope of some gain from us. His eye is always on some personal gain.
A selfish friend deserts us in our miseries. A selfish friend is never sincere. He is a hypocrite. He is worse than an enemy. He betrays us at the most critical moment. His actions are never in keeping with his words. He says something else and does something quite the contrary. He is not trustworthy.
A selfish friend is like a good apple that is rotten from within. He is very pleasant spoken, his words are as sweet as honey, he flatters you, he coaxes you and he says ditto to what you say. But his deeds give the lie to his words.
All the time he is playing a double game and making a fool of us. His oily tongue and his hypocritical talk induce in us a false sense of security and we leak out all our secrets to him. He makes a capital out of them and brings untold misery upon us. He is a wolf in the guise of a lamb. We must beware of a selfish friend.
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Once, I Loved An Angel whom I proposed saying Te Amo... I Love You...
We vowed to be ToGetHer Till the Last Breath but Wo Chali Gayi...
After she left the city, we stayed in a Long Distance Relationship for some time
till the day she came to me and said Dear, I Hate You...
I was standing in front of her asking myself only one question, "Did She Love Me?"
I realized that no, she doesn't love me anymore and
If it's not Forever, It's Not Love...
I wanted to say that I Live for You but couldn't say anything else
except Sorry for Loving You...
I am Heartless now and sometimes, life feels like very rude without her
but what else can I do, It's all About Destiny.
She is now Flirting with fate and regretfully saying one thing now a days
By Losing You I found How Much I Needed You...
©Aman Sharma, 2012
Nobody knows its empty
This Smile I wear,
The real one is left in the past
Because you have left me there...
Nobody knows I am crying
They wont even see myy tears,
When they think that I am laughing
I still wish that you were here...
Nobody knows its painful
They think that I am strong,
They say that this wont kill me
But I wonder if they are wrong...
Nobody knows I am praying
That you will change my mind,
They think that I had let you go
When you left me behind...
Nobody knows I miss you
They think I feel set free,
But I feel like I am bound with chains
Trapped in a mystery...
Nobody knows I need you
They say I can do it on my own,
But they dont know I am crying
When I am all Alone...
:'(
Trust is all about having immense faith in anyone. When you trust anyone with great belief, you feel, come what may your friend will always be there for you, stay loyal to you and never break your trust. Some people are very sweet and trust others blindly. This trusting others blindly can prove to be extremely fatal for their cause.
Peter Fonda had once remarked, “I don't trust anybody who didn't inhale.” One should never trust strangers and should shun from trusting anyone to a great extent. This world is a bad place where someone who pretends to be your friend may even end up back-stabbing you and turn out to be a foe. Strangers can never be trusted. Trust can lead to your doom. Such false impulses and hasty decisions that we make on the basis of our trust and faith in someone can lead to disaster and disappointment. In the words of Newt Gingrich, “You can't trust anybody with power.” This is certainly true because power easily corrupts and absolute power corrupts absolutely.
That moment when your so-called 'best friend' betrays you. Betrays your trust and every bit of faith you had in them. They leave you with the memories...The memories that keep come flooding back which brings tears to your eyes every time. It makes you doubt whether they ever really were a best friend or just a jerk disguised as a best friend!I used to miss you and the way you would just somehow make my day when I saw you and everything you said and did was the highlight of my day...I miss the person I thought you were.... :'
Love is
being happy for the other person; When they are happy. Being sad for the person; When they are sad. Being together in good times; And being together in bad times. Love is the source of strength…
Love is
Being honest with yourself at all times; Being honest with the other person at all times. Telling, listening, respecting the truth; And never pretending Love is the source of reality…
Love is
An understanding so complete that; You feel as if you are a part of the other person; Accepting the other person Just the way they are; And not trying to change them To be something else; Love is the source of unity….
Love is
The freedom to pursue your own desires; While sharing your experiences With the other person; The growth of one individual alongside of And together with the growth; Of another individual Love is the source of success…
Love is
The excitement of planning things together; The excitement of doing things together Love is the source of the future…
Love is The fury of the storm; The calm in the rainbow
Love is the source of passion…
Love is Giving and taking in a daily situation; Being patient with each other’s Needs and desires; Love is the source of sharing…
Love is
Knowing that the other person; Will always be with you Regardless of what happens; Missing the other person when they are away But remaining near in heart at all times;
Love is the source of security; Love is the source of life…! ♥ ♥
“Don’t Hurt; Just Hug”
To hug anyone is really one of the best gift to him.Its 100% NATURAL and carries many ADVANTAGES. It is a gift which you don’t have to WRAP and can even be RETURNED. It reduces TENSION and has no SIDE-EFFECTS…
Its BATTERY never ENDS, its not COSTLY and even it does not increases OBESITY. Also we don’t have to pay any MONTHLY INSTALLMENTS for it. No one can STEAL it and its TAX FREE…
So what are you waiting for? Don’t think that when others will start then you too will. Just go on and HUG a FRIEND……
